Resources

Thanks for your blog post about understanding the clitoris...and my wife says thank you too!

- Laurence

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Relationship Communication

Forge deeper connections through gratitude and empathy, openness and honesty, strategy and practice.



Stories and how-to guides for building better communication habits with your partner(s) whether or not you also use professional services.

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Libidos fallen our of sync?

Talk it out with our free desire worksheet

Don't worry—desire discrepancy is incredibly common! But we're all taught to avoid talking about sex and getting vulnerable. Well that ends here. Understand to connect:

Start the conversation
It is a worksheet about decoding desire discrepancy.
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Ethical Non-Monogamy & Poly

Thinking about opening your relationship and exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM)? Don't just dive into it without guidance. In my personal and professional experience—there are unforeseeable challenges and pitfalls.



Already practicing some form of polyamory? Relationship coaching can help streamline your communication and offer a safe place for vulnerability.

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Considering non-monogamy?

Use these prompts for effective communication

Download our beginner's guide to conversations about exploring ethical non-monogamy—starting with your own fulfillments & desires and what ENM means to you:

Get the free guide!
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Self Care & Toys

Learn the secrets and health benefits of self pleasure. 



Have you discussed sex tech and fidelity with your partner? Do you know how to find sex-positive porn? Does masturbation help with anxiety?

Get acquainted with yourself. You deserve it

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Wanna Try DIY? Get Lipservice

A racy relationship game about communication

Four weeks of DIY relationship coaching centered on 4 pillars of connection: communication, gratitude, desire, and touch.

Spice Things Up!
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Trauma Re-Empowerment

We could all use more awareness about the many manifestations of trauma.


Beyond acute major trauma events, sexual trauma & harassment are commonplace and ingrained in our collective psyche.



The good news is, there are plenty of proven tools and techniques for coping and rising out of trauma into self-empowerment.

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The RISE Bookshelf

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A book called a radical awakening by dr. shefali
A book titled polyamory a clinical toolkit for therapists and their clients
A book called more than two is a practical guide to ethical polygamy.

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